A
Gift of Love
When I was asked to pen a meditation for The Traveller, my first respond
was that I have nothing to offer in this area. However, with the onset
of age one frequently thinks of people and events in one’s past
that have had a marked influence on a life. I was reminded of such a
person in my youth.
I had an aunt whom I knew as the recluse, spinster school teacher who
had a crooked finger. She would frequently shake it at me when I had
been bad or she wanted to make a point. That finger would certainly
assure her ridicule when she wasn’t looking, and frequently my
brother and I would make fun of her behind her back.
Every Christmas I would get a small square box that contained a single
monogrammed linen handkerchief. The letter on the corner of that handkerchief
was never well monogrammed, and, as a young boy, I was usually disappointed
that I did not get a better, more expensive gift — something that
I really thought I needed more than a single handkerchief with a badly
monogrammed letter that I would never use.
It wasn’t until many years later that I learned that arthritis
had impaired her hands, making her fingers crooked; her ability to sew
had been made laborious and painful. Her struggle to monogram a single
handkerchief was indeed a time-consuming task of love. Because of her
devotion to me, she would painfully strive for weeks to weave the threads
through that linen cloth to prepare her seemingly meager gift for her
young nephew. How much I missed by looking at the gift rather than the
giver, and her labor of love.
We, as God’s children, fail to seek the truth behind the Master’s
Gift, Jesus Christ. We look for what He can do for us, rather than what
he has already done. We don’t see the true meaning of what that
Gift meant to the history of mankind. We don’t even see or appreciate
the final chapter of that small Gift’s life.
May our prayer be that we all may ponder God’s Gift, and strive
for Him to be a more significant part of our lives. “I pray that
the Father of glory may give you a spirit of wisdom and revelation as
you come to know Him.” (Ephesians 1:17)